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Nice!

I'm glad you feel confident enough to start being open about yourself in this respect, even if this is just a small step :D

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Remember, more important than having the respect of others, is to have respect on yourself!

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I didn't even try to start any relationship for many-many years, since school, and it seems I won't do that in next 4 years, at least.
And it's not only question of money and living space in my case. Primary reason - I have to say goodbye with my life of person who takes responsibility only for himself. :[

Don't remember if I ever write this here before.
I am kinda stuck with my life of careless teenager, who lives for himself. Still can't step into next phase of my life.
Now I have my own appartments, job I love... But still unprepared for life with someone.

I think moving with someone takes its process. Don't rush things, just get with someone and for some while you can live apart and still be together. Sharing space with someone can sometimes be hectic even if you know them and trust them a lot, so give it time.
Imo, if there's something going on with someone welcome it, but don't think too much about the next level yet. It can also be a source of motivation to help you grow into that next stage of your life you're referring to, so why not give it a shot?

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I like how this thread can be somewhat of an advice/venting space.

My past relationships were never really that uplifting. In my longest one, which was also my first one, I was seeing a guy I didn't really have any strong feelings for. We were happy on first glance, but I wasn't as into it as him.

After a messy breakup, I had two short time things and an one-sided crush that left me pretty emotionally empty.

Years later, I am still not really ready to move on with anyone because I'm afraid I will either hurt them or that they will reject me.

For example, there's this woman I have some feelings for, but I'm too much of a coward to actually make a solid move, mostly because even in the best case scenario, I feel like she will be disappointed and the cycle will repeat again.

I think I had a date today after searching activly for half a year. I was capital eh. It was alright, but it was meh. Agressivly meh.

We went to both of our houses and did some shopping but I feel like it just didnt click at all. I think I will try to get another date with her next week but if that is the same then she aint the one.