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It's a copy from the thread in the old forum. The original message was:

Theta wrote:Who here is in a relationship with someone else?

Here you can talk about their appearance, personality, and anything pertaining to relationships.

Yay, an old thread revived!
I almost forgot this thread.

On topic:
Still going strong with my bf. Next step is taking a loan and buying an apartment together.

Buying an apartment? You mean buying a house/condo/etc or renting an apartment?

Buying an apartment? You mean buying a house/condo/etc or renting an apartment?

Why couldn't I buy an apartment? o_O
Apartment is a unit in a condominium, I don't want to buy the whole complex!
And the houses in the Helsinki area are waaaaay out of our price range.
Plus the rents are so high it's more affordable to take a loan than to pay a rent.

I don't know if anyone remembers about a year ago when I was saying how I was "a hair's breadth" from having a girlfriend. Well, it took me long enough, but I finally asked her, by way of a note that I put on her car during school so she'd see it when she left.

She has texted me now, and she did not give a definitive answer but is saying she wants to talk to me in person. However the tone of the texts is very positive. I do not know how to interpret this situation.

Talk to her and see what happens, don't overthink it before the convo itself, you could only get sad. Just do it and hope for the best, but keep your expectations low so if it doesn't work out, you don't get THAT disappointed. (my personal tactics)

A friend of mine told me that he heard that the girl was really, really excited when she got my letter. That's the most reassuring news I got (and it was pretty reassuring at the time).

I can't really help thinking about it though, and the more I think about it the more it seems like she wouldn't have put it off if she were going to say yes. I'm worried that she really wants to date me, but there's going to be some reason why it's impossible. I can't think of what reason there could be, but she seems to always have a good reason behind whatever she does.

(By the way we had planned on talking on Tuesday, because this is a four-day weekend for our school district so we haven't seen each other since Thursday.)

Good luck Zombyrus, I hope it will work for you.

Yes I am in a relationship.

Cone wrote:Yes I am in a relationship.

How come everyone is in a relationship now? I guess St Valentine's day had something to do?

OnyxIonVortex wrote:

Cone wrote:Yes I am in a relationship.

How come everyone is in a relationship now? I guess St Valentine's day had something to do?

No. Not at all.